there are “A" shaped hugs and "I" shaped hugs. “A" shaped hugs require that you lean in on the top and out on the bottom. “I" shaped hugs are, obviously, full body hugs. some people are uncomfortable with anything but “A" shaped hugs from anyone that they are not sexually involved with. I find those people rather uptight and stiff but it’s their choice. and, honestly, it is their choice. anyone who prefers to give an “A” shaped hug will always end up sharing an “A” shaped hug. having an “I” shaped hug requires both parties choose “I” shaped. so I think you’re good.